Step-Mom Struggle
I find it troubling that anyone would despise their stepchildren. Marriage is a commitment to not only your spouse but to their children as well. If you’re unable to accept them, then maybe you shouldn’t have married into a family. It’s not easy to blend families, but it’s not impossible.
I believe in the importance of family values but also in the importance of honesty and communication. Instead of harboring negative feelings towards the children, you should try to connect with them on a personal level. You might find that you have more in common than you think.