We’re in the same boat, Grandma.
When it comes to grandparents, it’s rare for them to utter whatever comes to mind without first considering it. Because of their age and life experiences, the elderly may feel they have nothing to lose by expressing their views. They don’t care that it’s offensive.
Grateful for not being a redhead, this person’s grandmother told her new grandchild as she welcomed him into the world. Her comments were directed at her redheaded granddaughter. Does the freedom express one’s thoughts extend to saying whatever comes to mind? To pause for a moment…